Question

Lately I have been coming across many people in my life, young and old, who have left me feeling perplexed.

I have seven tattoos. Most of them are covered at all times. They range from quarter size to a full forearm tattoo. When people do see them they always say things like: "Wow, you have tattoos". I also hear that I look too young and innocent to have tattoos. I get so confused by these statements. Everyone of my tattoos have meaning and are in no way offensive. Tattoos are becoming more and more accepted these days that I find it strange that people still have such terrible views of body art. Tattoos are for every person, all shapes, sizes, young, old, color, ect. I say express yourself whichever way best suits you! I know I'll continue getting tattoos for years to come whether people like it or not.

The other statement I hear ALL of the time is; "You don't look like you have cancer". What does cancer look like? I don't understand why people think I would change so drastically after my diagnosis. I know that weight changes and hair loss are the main physical side effects of a cancer diagnosis, but not everyone goes through the same changes. My weight has fluctuated in many ways, the texture and the strength of my hair has changed, and I have heightened sensitivities to taste, touch and smell. I don't think I make any big cammotions when my sensitivities flair. I just move on from them. I'm still crazy, fun-loving Meg! I just get tuckered out faster than I used to. :)

These things have been on my mind a lot lately. I just don't understand why so many people view you differently after making a personal change, whether it's by choice, or not.

Am I the only one who feels this way? What are your thoughts on this topic? I choose the people I want in my life by things we have in common and the connections we make. Why is there so much so superficiality when true beauty is in the flaws and individuality of people.